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07 October 2020

Handles

There are two handles on every situation: one that allows you to manage it and one that does not. If your brother behaves unfairly towards you, do not adopt the ‘it's not fair’ attitude, because this handle will not allow you to manage the situation. Instead, choose the ‘he is my brother’, ‘we grew up together’ attitude: it will allow you to get a handle on the situation.

Epictetus, Handbook